tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4265503242081752766.post3654430740436325440..comments2023-10-31T07:19:15.895-04:00Comments on Remember All the Way: Secondary InfertilityAhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08034231451458994325noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4265503242081752766.post-90835865939692005862014-02-15T00:46:55.573-05:002014-02-15T00:46:55.573-05:00I once thought that I would survive my would-have-...I once thought that I would survive my would-have-been-due-date with a new pregnancy, only to making it to the two year anniversary with only a possible chemical. I feel like it's hard to find a place to fit in when you have secondary infertility, and there is for sure a whole lot of guilt. You're not alone <3Amberhttp://eatingmyselfpregnant.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4265503242081752766.post-67866619529276586492014-02-03T23:20:05.625-05:002014-02-03T23:20:05.625-05:00Hello, it's nice to find you, though I'm s...Hello, it's nice to find you, though I'm sorry it's because of a difficult path we both found ourselves on.<br /><br />You're right that it's hard to find Secondary IF bloggers. I found that most of my IF blogging friends got pregnant really quickly the second time around. It was very frustrating and I found it incredibly alienating. I did end up finding a few blogs by people that we're dealing with secondary IF, but most of them are either pregnant now or have stopped trying for a second child. I wish I had some links to send to you. I'll look through my Feedly subscriptions and send you the links of any bloggers I know dealing with this. It's a hard and lonely road. And it's strange because it's more common that primary IF and yet there seems to be so much less written about it. I'm not quite sure why that is.<br /><br />I hope your journey through secondary IF is a short one. Abiding with you.Esperanzahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12375150088333673843noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4265503242081752766.post-22258896586254545802014-02-02T18:45:53.773-05:002014-02-02T18:45:53.773-05:00http://esperanzasays.wordpress.com she struggled w...http://esperanzasays.wordpress.com she struggled with secondary infertility and found some resources. Look at her blog posts from a year ago. She has a baby now so she isn't in the trenches. My heart is with you.Noellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17217779025743115019noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4265503242081752766.post-34580346175658560652014-01-31T12:11:30.677-05:002014-01-31T12:11:30.677-05:00P.S. That is totally unhelpful on the fellowship i...P.S. That is totally unhelpful on the fellowship in secondary IF question, but I do know of two couples in VA with secondary IF (that and one other, who sometimes comments around here) who are not bloggers. They're closer to DC, so a bit far from you, but if you like, I can get you all in touch. I should also note that both have (after years of waiting) now had second children - though third kids may be another question for them. Anyway, let me know. the misfithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05206278843624907697noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4265503242081752766.post-65419003137942253632014-01-31T12:09:19.276-05:002014-01-31T12:09:19.276-05:00I have a friend who got pregnant right away as a n...I have a friend who got pregnant right away as a new (and very young) bride - then didn't have another baby for a good six years. Obviously, the first problem was that she totally didn't see the problem coming the second time! She turned out to have PCOS, although she is incredibly tiny, so I think that also made it take longer to diagnose - nobody suspected. Her daughter is a precocious (and, ah, rather bossy) child, and they simply put her to work praying for another baby ("her" baby, of course). They told her it was in God's hands, and she took that pretty well, I think, but I think she also gave Him a piece of her mind (especially when her aunt got pregnant with baby #4 - that just wasn't fair, she explained. Smart kid). They recently had baby #2, and while I know that won't happen for everyone, I think their approach to it with the older child worked out well. I bet M will understand better than you expect! the misfithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05206278843624907697noreply@blogger.com