bfn today

Monday, August 23, 2010

it's not even like I really expected a + (hoping for one is a different story), but it would be nice to be surprised with success one of these times. I am thankful to be able to get to 16dpo without so much as a spot, but in some ways that just increases the torture of the negative.

thank God for our pups.
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21 comments:

Lisa said...

Sorry A...it's always disappointing. There is always hope and it's hard when that hope comes crashing down.

Jessica said...

It never gets any easier!! ((HUGS))

Rach said...

Sorry for the BFN. It sucks with AF is a couple days late for nothing.

callmemama said...

So sorry :(. Negatives always suck, regardless of whether we're actually expecting them or not.

Jenny said...

i'm sorry :( i always felt the same way about my LP... excited that it was longer for the sake of implantation, but totally bummed b/c having a longer one made me hopeful :\

AplusB said...

UGH. I'm sorry. As *expected* as a BFN is, it's never easy. (((hugs)))

ventingvagina said...

:( BFNs still hurt even if you expect them. i'm so glad you still have hope though. hope is what carries us through this. hugs!

TeeJay said...

I'm sorry about the BFN. I never expect anymore, but like you said, I hope every single cycle. The fur babies help for sure. Our little kitten has no idea how much I adore him laying on me to sleep and constantly meowing at me for attention in the morning. I relish those times with my new "baby". Sending you hugs and lots of hope for next cycle.

AL said...

So sorry about the BFN. I would have gotten hopeful to have gotten to 16 DPO too, just adds to the torture of it all.

hugs.

the misfit said...

Surprised with GOOD things would be nice. There seems to be so much of the other. Today is now officially on my S-list.

T said...

Dang it! I was really hoping for a pleasant surprise for you this month!!

Josey said...

Dang it - that sucks!! I just got my BFN as well. *sigh* Let's be cycle buddies and BOTH get our BFPs this cycle!

Trisha said...

I'm so sorry! Those pups bring us more comfort than they'll ever know :) I hope you know I'm praying for you! Big hugs!

Nixy said...

ug. so sorry for this. Hugs.

Ann - Building a Nest said...

:( I'm so sorry.

lowfatlady said...

So sorry you got a bfn. That totally stinks.

Toni said...

I'm so sorry. I was just thinking about you today. Hugs. I wish it was easier.

Andrea said...

*HUG*

Hillary said...

I know exactly what you mean about not expecting but still hoping. Well said.

I am so sorry :( :(

Praying for Hope said...

A decent luteal phase is nice, but you're right, it makes the BFN harder to take.

Jane said...

I know I'm a little late commenting on this one, but I just wanted to say how sorry I am about another BFN. I know it never gets any easier, and in fact it seems like every BFN just gets harder and harder. I know your faith keeps you strong, and I hope you have found some comfort in it over the past few days.